Understanding..

After i heard alot of relationship stories..

I begin to feel depress..why all (or at least, most) guys are full of ego and
dunno how to treasure the other half..
all they think is about money, work, future..
and guys claim that, by doing so is for their de other half..
so that they can have a better future..

What about a bright future,with good job and tons of money..
but realize that his beloved is with another man?
Who is not as rich as they do,
but knows how to love?

"To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part."

how many of us actually fully understand the marriage vows,
before stepping into the next phrase of life?

Actually not all girls wants their husbands or bf to be rich
(at least i'm not, really) ..
just enough for daily expensese, dont need to struggle to stay alive..
a roof over the head and 3 meals to feed the stomach..
is good enough..

but how many actually understands,
ladies, feel so heartache to see their husbands work so hard..
comeing home everyday with a "i'm deadbeat face"..
and they rather him have a easier job and love her more..

but guys seems to have the " i wan to win" kinda mindset..
thinking that girls will leave them if they have no $$$..
or..throw face infront of other friends if he's not as rich..

den.............
i begin to wonder if eugene will begin to think this way..
i really hope not..
thinking only $$$ is the path to future..
and gf must support his thinking,and be understanding..

coz i think i'm more that satisfied now?
to have a moderate job and enough to spend..
i'm happie..

all i wan is to have a simple life..

难道真的有那么难吗？

Jazs.吟