===华语篇===
景上天花的朋友，
每个人都有。
但，
雪中送炭的，
有几个？？
我很庆辛，
我能拥有好几个雪中送炭的朋友。
谢谢你们，一直陪着我， 鼓励我。
我会记在心底的=)
===English version===
When you're at your peak,
you'll be surrounded with alot of friends..
but,
When you've taken a fall,
how many of them choose to stay with you??
I'm very lucky..
I've quite a handful of them choose to stay with me..
Thank you everyone, who have been accompany me &
keep encouraging me.
I'll remember this from the bottom of my heart =)
To those who have accompanied me,hear me out,
given me advices,try to make me happy or think less..
You know who you're, i really thank you from the bottom of my heart..
thank YOU,for being with me =)
Its very often that when one involves in a r/s..
they forgot of their friends..
i would say that i didnt have alot of time to accompany my friends..
but i try my best to be with them when i'm free..
this time, its really a very very hard fall for both of us..
and its not easy to get it back on track..
this time, it needs alot of time to build to back bit by bit..
when both have arguements & wanted to give up, one has to be strong..
this time, no one choose to be strong, coz i guess we're both too tired..
so just choose to put it aside..and needs alot of courage to face it again..
but,it is this kind of times, make the relationship really grow..
i realize that, a relationship is really a very diffcult topic to learn..
the learning process never ends..
we can encounter the same problems again n again..
or can encounter new problems..
the only way is..how determine we want to solve it..
maybe the problems repeat,coz we're not determine to solve it..
or we just did it the wrong way..
there is 101 ways..and definately one will be right..
the problems is..do we really want to try out the 101 ways?
Let me share with you a story one of my friend told me..
Title: The Chicken Wing and Drumlet
A couple(like many of us) went to a fastfood joint..
decided to get a 2 piece chicken, inculdes a chicken wing & drumlet..
the guy pick up this fave, the drumlet..
instead of eating it himself..he gave it to the girlfriend..
the girlfriend whom like the wing,
thought that he like the wing, choose to accept the drumlet he gave..
in the end, both of them didnt get what they like to eat..
coz there is no proper communication..
often in our world..
we give what we think is the best to our partner..
thinking that this is giving, this is love..
but how often do we ever think is this what our partner really wants?
even if we know what our partners want, can we fufill them?
to your suprise..alot of us can..temporally..
but at the end of the day,when we got tired of it, the things got back to square one..
coz this is not us..coz we're not changing to suit into other half of our lives,
from the bottom of our hearts..if we do change, from the bottom of our hearts to provide them with what we can..
or accept the unchangables..
putting in effort, even its a very little act of care, the other party can feel it..
This is Love..
Bii, i'll wait.... to see a beautiful ending..we're taking this break..coz we know we love each other..
